We must learn to love ourselves enough to attract the kind of partner that would be capable of meeting us creatively, producing an explosion of possibilities. The Higher Conscious Relationship Enlightenment, also known as Breaking Through Love Barriers process arose from my own journey to love and loving.

Experience Soulmate Love, Heal Heartache, Break Through Your Love Barriers

For Singles and Couples (For Heterosexuals and Gays)

We invite you to join us for a retreat weekend with others who are also looking to explore and create a higher conciousness of elightened relationships. Invest two days and an evening towards your future success and happiness.

Consider joining us for an Ocean Retreat in Big Sur, CA. or perhaps one in Maui with Susan Bradley RN, author of How to be Irresistible to the Opposite Sex, Irresistible Prescriptions for Love, and Breaking Through Love Barriers. Susan is also the founder of LovingUniversity.com

Event Dates:

Usually the 4th weekend of each month

Tuition & Other Information:

• $1295 (lifechanging seminar, most meals, and overnight lodging for Friday and Saturday)
• To save $100.00 with the early registration discount , register 30 days in advance.
• Payment plans accepted.
• MasterCard and Visa also accepted.
• Call 1-888-424-0180 to register.

PART II—Free 15 minute Consultation With Susan Bradley

If you are unsure how this course will benefit your life, I invite you to have a FREE 15 minute phone consultation with me, personally. During this enjoyable 15 minutes, we will discuss relationship issues and at the end, you may find that you have some great answers. You will be able to choose powerfully—without pressure—whether this retreat (or perhaps a different seminar) meets your needs. I guarantee this.

Call 1-888-424-0180 for your consultation now. When it comes to living life fully, you have no time to procrastinate.

PART III—Saving Your Relationship Letter from Renee

This retreat weekend can save your love life, prevent a break-up or divorce and help you to choose the best path for you. The following letter was written by a couple who nearly got a divorce but are choosing to stay together powerfully. This could be you.

Two months later, Renee reported that their relationship keeps on getting better and that there are surprising side benefits: She now has long nails, since the workshop she hasn't bitten her nails for the first time in her life. Her husband used to suffer from insomnia and keep her awake and he is so peaceful now they both get sleep. And one of her daughters attitude remarks on her report card improved 100%.)

I can't know ahead of time the benefits that you will personally receive for your time and money in this retreat. I will say based on reports from past participants that it can and will positively impact your work life, your relationships, your health, your happiness, and your career & finances.

PART IV—More Love Barrier Information and Sample Weekly Lesson

This course is designed to allow you to recognize and dismantle love barriers that prevent you and the people in your life from giving and receiving love. Everyone has 5 love barriers no matter how transformed they are. How severely they limit your life will depend on how willing you are to recognize where they come from and how severely they affect your life. Love barriers appear can appear early as the first date while others won't reveal themselves until the 3rd, 7th or even the 9th year of a relationship. Being prepared to handle all the different types of love barriers will prepare you for success in all of your relationships. As people mature and/or have children, certain love barriers are triggered. Most disagreements in a relationship come from each individual's love barriers clashing with each other. Some love barriers may be inherited while others are incident based.

The results of the course occur by creating a safe and nurturing space for everyone in the room to express themselves with emotional honesty while protecting everyone's confidentiality. Total confidentiality is achieved through everyone promising not to share any personal details of what is spoken outside this room. That means that unless you have specifically asked permission from the person whose story you would like to repeat, then you do not have the right to share any details with anyone by changing the names to protect the "guilty" or the "innocent."

Each week there is a different topic with a worksheet and a 24 hour promise sheet. Another beneficial theme may "show up" on its own. Consider it a bonus. One week the actual love barrier topic might be "Eliminating Fear of Abandonment" or "Living With Joy". And, what I have found is that every week a bonus theme seems to also show up. An example of this might be: "Speaking to people from what their tone of voice tells you instead their words."

The three (3) twenty-four hour promises need to be in 3 different areas.

Make one 24 hour promise to benefit your career/purpose/mission in life, one for your love life, and one that's just for you personally...like taking a bubble bath, or treating yourself to something special.

Then create three weekly promises in the same areas. Use the bonus theme for ideas.

Tasks:

1. List one 24 hour promise. Our statistics have shown that if participants actually complete their 24 hour goals, they usually achieve their weekly goals more easily.
2. Try to avoid choosing things that you would have done anyway.
3. Make the goals measurable, for example: saying that you will be "nice" to everyone you meet, is not measurable. Saying that you will "listen" to each person you meet before jumping to any conclusions, is measurable.
4. Be willing to break the goals into smaller pieces than you normally would.
5. For irresistible results attempt to stretch yourself mentally, physically, spiritually, or emotionally when making and keeping your promises.

We usually begin the class by having everyone introduce themselves in a revealingly unique way.

Answer these questions:

1. What was the best vacation you ever took and why?
2. What was your most embarrassing but funny moment?
3. Describe your first date. How old you were and how long did you see each other?
4. Name one positive thing a family member said to you that you will always remember.
5. What is our favorite song, and tell us how you feel when you hear it played. (Try to choose one that you feel you could play over and over and over without tiring of.)
6. Why did you decide to attend this seminar? (Please do not use a generic answer for this one. i.e. I'm into personal growth. or " A friend told me to." "I had nothing to do and decided that I would check it out.") Instead tell us what it is about your relationship goals that made you want to attend.

Sharing details about your life will allow you to connect with others in a more powerful way. Each week:

1. Everyone in the class has the opportunity to release a love barrier.
2. One person will get the opportunity to get one on one coaching from the facilitator. That person gives a gift to everyone else by their willingness to open up and participate. In order to free yourself from the negative effects of a love barrier you will need to become aware of a shift in your body. When you feel a release in your body you will know that you have released the hold that a barrier has had on you.

Try exploring this concept by remembering a time you forgave someone, and/or possibly released emotional pain.

1. Write down the details: Who was it?
2. What did this person do?
3. Describe how you felt when you forgave that person.
4. Did you notice feelings in your body when you did that? [Yes | No | Maybe]
5. Did you a) forgive that person mentally b) did you actually talk to them about the incident? c) a & b [Choose One]
6. Is there anything else you would want them to know now? [Yes | No | Maybe]
7. If Yes then write about it.

If you are totally complete you probably felt a feeling or shift inside your body when you forgave that person. Remember that you can tell yourself over and over again that you are complete with someone or some incident, but if you still feel that there is a part you did not communicate something then you are only partially complete. The Love Barrier sessions have good long-lasting side benefits. You may not notice the benefits until you complete your 24 hour promises. You won't know until you try.

We invite you to consider leading weekly sessions if you are someone who enjoys giving and receiving while making a difference in the world. You may want to support Loving University's mission to make this course available all over the world and in every language. Additionally, we want this course to be self-generating. This means that it is available by a suggested love offering yet is still available by scholarship or partial scholarship to everyone regardless of their financial situation. If you are interested, then communicate your desire to contribute with time, energy, finances, etc... to your course leader and support him or her in reaching others. Volunteers helped make this session possible. There is always a need for help in setting up the seminar space, providing handouts, greeting people, and making telephone calls to people who have said that they were interested in the course.

Although we have received many letters from people who feel that they have a happier and more self fulfilled life from participating in these weekly sessions, few have sent financial support. This is why we ask $20 for the first session and then ask for $5-$10 love offerings after that.

We do not want someone turned away due to their financial situation. However we also know that there are always some people who think things should be free and do not contribute. These people fail to realize that there are room costs, travel costs, mailing costs, phone costs, etc....and the money has to come from somewhere to cover them. This is why we have asked for a set donation for all products such as books, audiotapes, workbooks, etc.

We look forward to your next visit with this course.

Namaste, Shalom, Ciao! Make Every Day Irresistibly Precious!

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2008-2009 Retreats

How to Be Irresistible to the Opposite Sex

Susan's Award-Winning masterpiece [more...]

Irresistible Prescriptions for Love Susan's classic book, packed with practical insights [more...]

New Flirting
E-book! Learn to Flirt in 30 days or less [more...]

Meet the Love Coach

Susan Bradley, RN

The founder of LovingU.com and an award-winning author, Susan has been featured in Complete Woman, The Discovery Channel, Cosmo, and appeared on Hard Copy, 48 Hours, CNN and Montel.

Her latest book is Irresistible Prescriptions for Love

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